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To make sure your children get the message "you" want them to hear, follow these guidelines:

• Start early: The ideal time to start is when a child is first exposed to these issues through the media, or other sources.
  
  
• Initiate conversations: Although the child may not talk about these issues, she/he is most likely thinking about them. Ask questions! Start the conversation. If you find talking about these issues difficult, understand that the more you do it, the more comfortable you'll feel.
  
  
• Create an open environment: Through both actions and words, make it clear that the child can talk to you about anything that's on his/her mind.
  
  
• Listen to your child: The tougher the issue, the more important it is to be a good listener. Also, know that children aren't always looking for answers .... sometimes they just want someone who cares to listen.
  
  
• Always be honest: If you don't know the answer to a question, say so. But, say what you'll do to find the answer and get back to the child.
  
  
• Be patient: If you don't have the time to spare, be honest, and set aside a time and place convenient to both of you.
  
  
• Share your values: Tell the child what you expect and why. The child will appreciate your guidance and instruction.
  
  
• Use TV as an educational tool: Most TV shows are a poor reflection of reality, which makes them an ideal point of origin for initiating discussion, talking about the truth and expressing your values.
  
  
• Talk about it again .... and again: One conversation may not be enough. Remind the child that you are interested.

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